If you've recently fallen for an introvert, perhaps you're feeling a little uncertain about how to proceed. However, they might be extremely polite, quietly amused in social situations, and very intuitive in your post-social, private time." In other words, see your introvert for who he or she is, and value the good.2.As you find out just how much time he or she needs alone, it is easy to wonder if your shy guy or gal is really on board for a new relationship. Read on for insight into the inner workings of your alluring introvert's brain and a few tips on how to deal.1. Understand that unexpected situations can be unwelcome or scary."Audience participation is my worst nightmare," says Grace V., a social media strategist in Madison, Wisconsin.If she won't talk to me before a date, why would I surmise she would during a first date, which most find stressing? Some times it just can be a case of a demure lady that needs to take it slowly before opening up. I'm very out going , So I could carry the date if needed.Be it emails, chat, IM, phone, or *gasp* in person - if the person will not hold any sort of eye contact, conversation, or display any interest - I doubt seriously I would ask them out. I never had a date that I was not able to bring her out some.
And while Dembling says introverts may have a harder time meeting people to date, she maintains that "dating itself, however, is not hard for introverts because we tend to be most comfortable in one-on-one social interactions, where we don't have to compete for attention." In fact, being an introverts may actually have some unexpected advantages in the dating field. They simply don't gain energy from social interactions like extroverts do, which can make small talk feel and possibly pointless.Introverts can do very extroverted things, sometimes better than extroverts.The difference is, the introverted person may need time to recharge.Face to face meetings usually have situations by which 2 people are doing the same thing ie..waiting in line, Shopping, etc etc that lead to a conversation.Everyone feels a little shyness and anxiety at first..it doesn't make me feel good when I am the one making all the effort to to show that I am interested in getting to know the other person and they are not making any effort on their part.