We picture the grumpy bully who belittles every server he or she encounters, or commands their partner how to dress from head to toe.While those signs are indeed troubling, there are many additional signs that might show up quite differently.Such scenarios made Nikki think of the comedy , and at first she tried to get over her annoyance by telling herself that she was better off being with a "Felix" than an "Oscar." She didn't want to come across as a complainer, but she did find this annoying.What eventually began to concern Nikki more about Max had nothing to do with his apparent perfectionism, or even his excessive tidiness.Look at it this way; lets say you are a building that wants to be the tallest building in town. You can build yourself up or tear the other buildings down.The controlling man tears everyone around him down to build himself up. Just when she decides to say something to the man he does something nice and so she keeps her mouth shut again and again.This is where it becomes scary."The emotional manipulation is eggshells enough that the constantly who is being controlled actually believes that they themselves are the villain," Psychology Today reported.Controlling people need to have everything their way.
However, a relationship that keeps you away from people is not healthy.
We date for a reason and that is to find our absolute match. When it comes to someone who is controlling, it may start off gradually and then you are trapped.
We may end up dating what seems like the perfect person for us. But these controlling relationships can sneak up on almost anyone.
It can be lies, manipulation, guilt or they may play on insecurities. That is the thing you never know with a master controller--they will lean on whatever tactic to play you.
These all play a role in a relationship where one person is dominating the other through control.