More intelligent American boys are more likely to grow up to value sexual exclusivity in early adulthood than less intelligent boys.So the unwillingness of women to date less intelligent men is rational if they are seeking a mate who values monogamy and sexual exclusivity.The ladies at The brought the subject up in a recent survey asking ten different men why so many smart men date “dumb girls.” I was one of the respondents.Now Nicole Lapin, my colleague here at CNBC, has tried to explain why smart women want to date smart men. The Gloss wanted to know why smart men were dating less intelligent women, while Lapin wrote about why smart women date smart men.It's hard to think of any examples — whereas I can think of tons of examples in the opposite direction.WHAT THE MEN HAVE TO SAY Nonetheless, three of my male friends reassure me that they are turned on by smarter women..I believe them. 1: He says he likes women who are smarter than him in different ways.
Well, it turns out Santoshi's study proved something very interesting: for women, there is no statistically significant correlation between intelligence and valuing monogamy.
So why do women place a higher value on a mates intelligence than men do? As it turns out, intelligence in men is correlated with valuing sexual exclusivity.
A 2010 study by London School of Economics professor Santoshi Kanazawa established the relationship.
The study found that women, of course, valued a man’s attractiveness.
But they did not discount intelligence; they would meet an intelligent man for a second time, even if he were not attractive. If a woman were average in appearance, her high intelligence had no effect on whether he would meet her a second time.