This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you.
After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?
Women, if you find yourself in this situation, that your boyfriend is not only still on line but he’s been active "within an hour," I think you might have to adddress that you have a problem. Maybe he just likes having his ego stroked when women flirt with him?
It may not mean that he’s actually cheating on you, meeting other women and having sex with them, but I do think it means he’s not taking your relationship or feelings as seriously as he probably ought to. This is still somewhat problematic because he isn't exactly in a position to be getting stroked by other women, now is he? All the reasons I could think of for a man to keep a profile active while he’s in a relationship. He likes to flirt with strange women and be flirted with.3.
This time I am not saying anything, but feel he is always looking for something better. My girlfriend who is on looked at his site for me (which is still posted) and said he had been on that day, just a few hours ago, which was while I was gone. A woman who has so little self-esteem that she puts up with such defiant behavior. But if the company knows and doesn’t fire him, whose fault is it that the behavior continues? And if I’m the CEO, I’m gonna keep on openly embezzling. But really, what do you think he’s DOING on Match each day?
Do you think he’s just browsing, like people browse through the mall?
I have to admit, things have been rocky but for the most part we've been able to get past all of our obstacles of long-distance hardships and trust issues.
Since we have dated for almost two years, I asked him to cancel his online dating account. I told him it was upsetting and we had a little verbal disagreement. But your relationship does suggest a level of patience and tolerance that far exceeds the norm. Imagine a company that lets its CEO cook the books and embezzle from them because he’s a smart, charismatic guy.
After another social event that I attended with girlfriends, I found that he had done the same thing again. –Barb A man who is openly defying his two-year girlfriend to stay active on Match. The shareholders would have every right to demand an ouster. I do hate to be the one to burst your bubble, Barb.
SO HELP ME UNDERSTAND You are consciously and deliberately advertising to the entire (FEMALE) population that you are available.
Available to speak to women who believe you are unattached, that you look something like your 'thinner version' photograph, and that you are free (AVAILABLE) to engage in romance, possibly with her, at least on line.