Some may not have ever dated another woman, because they married the first woman they ever met.A lot of older widowers have grown children; in fact, many may even be grandfathers. Widowers often need a woman’s touch around the house. Face your reality instead of letting guys distract you with their temporary ego boosts.Those truths always come out, which is why guys don't stick around for that long. This might sound harsh, but I'm only saying this because I believe in tough love.Much like in the beginning when meeting a Narcissist, he puts on a great act, and he uses his best performance to lure you in and win you over!As time passes, you immediately notice a drastic change in his behavior, the way he treats you and the cycles of idealization and devaluation begin to root!They might be used to a wife who did all the domestic things for them, such as the laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, or even fixing a running toilet.So you see a widower online, and you are thinking, “What a great catch this man is! ” Not having done your homework and investigated the challenges, you are encouraged.
A man who has been married to one woman for over forty years can be challenging.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
If you've been reading this blog for any time now, you are familiar with the idea of cutting off a man after he breaks up with you.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.